Ok, so I've made the necessary phone calls, so here goes. After almost 10 years Cathy and I have decided to call it quits. We've both grown in different directions, and have found ourselves un-happy in the current situation. There's no fault or blame to be placed here, we both have our issues with ourselves and each other. She will be staying in the house we're renting, and I'll be moving again at the end of the month. With luck, we can do this and still remain friends. She's a good woman and I wish her nothing but the best in life. I'll get everyone my new address after I get moved and settled in.