BTW, just sent off Rich's paperwork to make his greencard permanent. It felt so weird having to send proof we were in a viable marriage to the dept. of Homeland Security instead of directly to INS. Apparently HS has a go at it before they send it on to Immigration? Or maybe they are the same thing with a new name. BTW, just in case you're wondering ... I don't need to know what color his toothbrush is, just have to show things like joint checking accounts, both of us on the mortgage, cars insured for both of us together ... things like that. Not very romantic is it. I'd rather have to know what color his toothbrush is and if he gets gassy from cauliflower heh.